What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
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32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
Sydney Sweeney and the business of being hot - Yahoo
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
How can I remove decimals in math?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
*** Questions About Me ***
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
Any that are a turn off?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
How do I get over a long-term relationship breakup?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
Some men love anal sex more than vaginal sex. Why?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
What might be the social consequences of an ethnic as opposed to a civic conception of the nation?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
Family Relation Age Play
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
What was the first Native American tribe to inhabit Long Island, NY?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
The Ice Breaker Questions
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
What's the most trivial thing that ever made you go to the doctor?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
Nothing too Serious
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
If yes, what?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Any that are a turn off?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
Please share Did you stop?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
How old are you? Male or Female?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
*** Random Questions ***
39~ What are your love languages?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
If you win, what will you make them do?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
52~ What are your hobbies?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
29- How superstitious are you?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
What is your favorite position? Why?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Would you read them together?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
Have you ever? Care to Share?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?